It seems like being humble is a thing of the past lately. Everyone is so quick to show off how much money they’re making and/or bragging about making more than the next person. Yes, it is a blessing to support oneself. Having more is always better. However, that does not warrant anyone to think that they’re better than anyone because they base their importance on financial success. That is ignorant. Having more money does not give anyone permission to look down on those who are struggling to get by. That could become them one day if they’re not careful. The Lord WILL humble those who exalt themselves more than what they truly are. Humility is crucial to have.
Being humble is about being aware about one’s situation and being thankful that they are in a comfortable position. Being humble is about thanking God for His many blessings and not bragging about our riches to people who are not as well to do. There’s levels to it. Humility reminds me of Self Respect. It is about being wise enough to know that we’re worthy/blessed but cautious enough to not allow Materialistic Things get us over our heads.
Humility is about containing our urge to crap on someone’s growth if they are talking crazy to us. In other words – people who are not on the same level as we are but are trying to make it seem like they are…. we have this urge to want to shut them up by flexing. We don’t because we know the sacrifices we had to make and we don’t have to prove anything to make ourselves look better.
Yes, it is hard to NOT flex on people who think they are better than us. But, we have to remind ourselves that these goods can be taken from us at any moment. But in the end, we’re only human. Flexing is a norm nowadays and most of us do that on a regular. Furthermore, I feel like if we are to flex on anyone, it should be in the name of the Lord. I mean He is the reason why we are living well to begin with. People will know about His goodness one way or another, whether it is verbally or materialistically.
Arrogance
Arrogance is based off of people thinking that they were able to accumulate all their riches by themselves. They barely needed handouts (so they think). They didn’t rely on anyone to get them to where they are now. How many of us can REALLY say that they’ve gotten to where they’re at without the help of anyone? Impossible. How can that be? Humanly speaking, I do not think that is possible. With God, anything is possible. (If you know, you know).
Question
There is one major issue that I will address in this blog that deals with success. Normally, when someone surpasses a level of success that is noticeable within their close circle, people in their inner circle always want a piece. Rightfully so. I do believe that if a person is well equipped to help out close friends/relatives, he or she should do so!
HOWEVER, I do have a problem with people who think that a successful person is their meal ticket. People with that mindset are lazy and are leeching off of people who “made it.” People who are successful are not obligated to take care of anyone just because they have money to spend. It took hard work for them to get to where they are at. If the person who is well to do gives a friend a huge sum of cash to invest and better themselves, they’ve done their part!
That friend should NOT be coming back for more money after they recklessly spend their “investments” on booze and cars. That is not fair and that is their fault. That is where I draw the line. The same goes for family. Question – Am I the only one who feels this way? What do you think?
On top of that, people with that kind of mentality will guilt trip those who tried to help them out. They’ll say “you changed” or you’re “acting fake.” No no. My friends, be cautious of people like that. They would much rather eat off of our backs than to work hard like the rest of us. Life isn’t easy for anyone. We all have to put in long hours of sweat, tears, and dedication to get to a certain level just to “get by” or “feel comfortable.” Although, if there are people who have no problem with constantly supporting a friend/relative financially, by all means do you! That is commendable. I respect that. But for the rest of us, there should be boundaries and it should be respected.
If I give you a lot of money to start your own business or go back to school, I do not want to hear about the money being spent on clothes, cars, jewelries, and watches. Reckless spending. Unnecessary.
Conclusion
All of what is written, relates to humility and self respect. We are wise enough to know that we are blessed with success and we are discreet in how we move. Remember – not everyone will be happy for your achievements. People are envious and jealous so be careful with who you share your financial prosperity with. Flexing are for those who spend money on cars, clothes and physical things just to be looked at. Humility is about knowing what we have but choosing not to flaunt it because we know it wasn’t easy. And we know that the Lord is the reason for it all.
Some of us are less fortunate and we want to be able to afford nice things too! Moreover, I am not implying that people shouldn’t be proud about what they’ve accomplished. I believe they have earned the right to feel savvy and victorious. But if it is in the face of those who are not well off, that comes off as rude and insensitive. But that is just me (as always). In the end, some of us cannot help ourselves because we want others to know we live that kind of lifestyle. We’re humans. It’s what we do. I just hope we think twice before we make the next person feel inferior. Lastly, humility is attractive!
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